Why do we cling so stubbornly to our negative quirks, even though we so often know they harm us? Is it because we try to find the positive in them, even though we become interested in things we ourselves don't consider to be positive?. Over time, this can create scars that are difficult to heal. Isn't it better to choose a different path in life to avoid this risk? Firstly, by doing so, we avoid the risk of further pain, and secondly, we prevent unnecessary suffering. We discover new paths in life and can follow them without guilt. As we know, opinions can change, and that includes our own.